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Dear Chronic Daters, Part V – “The Power of Two”

In Dating, Marriage on 12/14/2011 by Beyond the Face of facebook . Tagged: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

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I LINK, therefore I am…”

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Because the UNION of marriage is where we truly reveal our self to someone, it is, ironically, within marriage where we also fully realize our authentic, oneness with our divine SELF.

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The first step is to begin the process of shedding “layerslike taking off our coat when we come home.  That is, when we come to our spouse or spouse-to-be, we must let go of the image, status, and prestige which we use to protect our tender self from the base elements of the outside world..

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.…And we go “slip into something more comfortable” –  connection with our spouse. 🙂

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Since our spouse is not “the outside world,” the way we interact with our spouse should, therefore, reflect a different tone and approach from the way we conduct our self outside.   This includes refraining from imitating speech and communication styles from outside influences (such as from t.v. and movies), which are unnaturaly, often, constructed to evoke some dramatic sensation – that is, they are scripted and rehearsed for fast entertainment.

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…Instead, generously dedicate to our spouse the space and time for thoughtful, respectful, loving communication. 🙂

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Physically, our spouse is outside of our body, like the outside world.  However, to enter the union of marriage is to actually have intent (“I do…!“) to transcend beyond our limitations that keep our potential and direction locked-up in a chokehold.  It is in unity where the unique, authentic, pure SELF  of both spouses have space and time to deeply connect as one

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..So we’re okay
We’re fine
Baby I’m here to stop your crying
Chase all the ghosts from your head
I’m stronger than the monster beneath your bed
Smarter than the tricks played on your heart
We’ll look at them together then we’ll take them apart
Adding up the total of a love that’s true
Multiply life by the Power Of Two…

– Indigo Girls

Again, the purpose is for sharing and nurturing the same soul… for a level of growth, elevation, and refinement that can only be conceived through marriage. 

Therefore, as mentioned before, each spouse’s own “metamorphosis,” to discard the layers, is essential for our true and unique revelation… 🙂

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I LINK, therefore I am…  for you, Dear/Love/Darling/Love of My Life/Sweetheart…

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May we all, soon, experience TRUE freedom within marriage to experience and share who we are, truly capable of being. 🙂

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“‘Reach out and touch me,’ I’m here for you, Love…”  (http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/depechemode/personaljesus.html)

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BFf .

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